What for, what next…

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What for, what next…

This is a response to ‘Being “Not Lonely” isn’t Enough’, which I cross-posted this week. It is a great article, and as many eloquent writings about ‘settling’, desire and deserving it all – I noticed that I had not read a good male perspective on that subject recently.

So rather than looking for something to cross-post, I looked for the closest available Man who is looking to create the relationship of his life. I found myself (and yes, that is ...

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How about NOW?

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How about NOW?

The great thing about moments is there are lots of them – at least that is our experience. They seem to be in limitless supply. One day they will run out.

So what makes this one, right now special? important? irreplaceable?

My observation is that we discard a lot of moments out of hand – put them into the recycling (or more often the mountain of trash) in the hope that there will be a better one along in a while ...

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Access to Power (and Achilles seal- a bad pun)

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Access to Power (and Achilles seal- a bad pun)

This is not really a coaching blog entry. Or is it? You get to decide.

Those who know me well understand that since 2005 I have been doing strange things with old Vegetable Oil.

I have been steeped in the science of climate change and greenhouse gas impacts for a long time courtesy of my father – Graham Goodeve – a geomorphologist by trade who, whilst I was growing up, fed my curiosity about the physical processes at work in the world ...

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Running out of tomorrows…

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Running out of tomorrows…

I am currently in the UK with my birth family. I left on short notice to be with them in my Mothers’ last few days. She died on tuesday morning after a long illness.

Over the last weeks I have experienced the powerful Woman I knew as she rallied, then fell again and entered terminal decline. I was there for the last breath; as she left. Her life has been a gift up to the last moment – and it keeps on giving.

I woke ...

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Where is wellbeing?

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Where is wellbeing?

I am away from home right now. And so I have the perfect excuse to break my regular fitness regime and ignore it for a week or so.

However this is the same conversation I put in the way even when I am home. Just another version of procrastination. It is just resistance looking for a reason…

If my health and wellbeing were however my number #1 priority, what would I be doing? Putting it off? Or just have it handled? Being up ...

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